flint.
we want to help you.
We’re aware that watching pornography and buying sex is an unhealthy habit, and we know this can affect relationships, sex life and mental health. It’s also evident that these patterns of behaviour are a struggle to leave behind.
Flint supports men with strong temptations, to significantly reduce their purchase of sex. Developed by a dedicated team which includes a Counsellor and Solution Focused Practitioner, the Flint programme can help you to deal with shame, mend damaged relationships and recover a healthy and fulfilling attitude to sex.
non-judgmental.
You are welcome and valued. Nobody will judge you for anything you have done.
supportive.
You will be listened to and supported throughout your time with Flint.
confidential.
Confidentiality and discretion are vital aspects of the service that Flint offers.
JEREMY’S* STORY.
“I did genuinely want to to change, that I wanted to be happier...it’s just that I didn’t know how...Eventually, I stopped visiting brothels, and even porn sites too. I started to face up more to the difficulties and challenges in my life”
IT STARTS WITH A CONVERSATION.
A big deal, but not. Just an initial conversation to understand your experiences, get to know you and your story. You’ll then be offered the most helpful approach for your situation.
one to one mentoring.
Sometimes the best option might be to start with some one to one mentoring sessions before progressing onto our Peer Support Groups. We often use a Solution Focused approach in our mentoring sessions, although we will always discuss options to find the best way of supporting you.
peer support group.
A monthly, online event, where men who have been receiving Flint mentoring gather to share with, learn from, and encourage one another.
FAQs
Here are some of the frequently asked questions about Flint, if you have a question that isn’t answered here, we’re more than happy for you to get in touch on email.
is flint for you?
Do you really need Flint? You might not be sure whether you need help. To help you think through your current behaviour and how it is affecting your life and your relationships we have put together a list of questions to consider. For clarity have a look at our Questions to Consider.
will any records be kept about me?
Your privacy is important, so we use anonymous pseudonyms on any written information. Brief notes of discussions will be written for continuity but kept secure.
is what i say confidential?
You can talk to us in full confidence. We will not share anything you say outside Flint without your prior permission. As part of team oversight we may need to discuss cases, but this is done without identifying names or contact details. All group participants sign a confidentiality agreement before taking part. We do however, have a legal duty to report Child Sexual Abuse or Child Sexual Exploitation.
is flint faith-based?
The Flint programme is built on evidence-based research, while also drawing on relevant Christian teachings. We are able to deliver both secular and faith based mentoring sessions, depending on the mentee’s preference.
are flint mentors trained?
Flint mentors are mostly volunteers. They come from a variety of backgrounds and all have some basic training in Solution Focused Practice. Our team includes a retired doctor who is now a Christian counsellor, and an accredited Solution Focused Practitioner. All of our mentors are screened and trained by Azalea, and each of them has their own experience of finding a healthy sexuality.
can i volunteer with flint?
Take a look at our Volunteer page under our Get Involved section of the website. There is a three day training programme for frontline volunteers along with a formal selection process and DBS checking. We can also offer a variety of voluntary positions on an ad-hoc or more regular basis with more administrative and practical tasks.